No matter how bad a situation might seem, when you are truly passionate about something, you can overcome any obstacle that comes your way. I have been speaking to a few of my clients after my workshops and most of them find it difficult to stick to their goals and aspirations. This could be due to a combination of factors such as not really knowing what you want, setting goals that are too easy/too difficult and the external environment. While it is true that sometimes external situations might affect our own goal pursuits, if you truly are passionate about a particular goal/ambition, your mind would be able to 'see' a solution somewhere no matter how huge the obstacle. Here's a truly inspiring story about Hollywood Actor, Sylvester Stallone. Before he became a superstar with his movie, Rocky, he was just like any regular person; someone with lots of passion and a huge dream but facing lots of obstacles. Read his tale of how persistence truly does pay off!
Stallone's Story
Stallone attended school in suburban Philadelphia where he first started acting. He then spent two years instructing at the American college of Switzerland in Geneva. When he arrived back in the United States he became a drama major at the University of Miami where he also began to write. He left college before graduation and moved to New York to pursue his acting career.
He auditioned for almost every casting agent in town with no success. He decided to turn more towards writing and wrote many screenplays while waiting for his acting career to blossom. In 1974 he got a break as one of the leads in "The Lords of Flatbush". He also received his first writing credit for additional dialogue on this film. Despite this small break he struggled to build momentum. He kept auditioning with one rejection after the next. He started writing more screenplays and received similar rejection. Stallone had run out of money and was living in a desperate situation. He could barely even feed his family. Then one day he was walking through the streets of New York and he wandered into the library to keep warm. This became a regular habit for him during the colder months. During his time at the library he began reading books from writers such as Tolstoy and Edgar Allan Poe.
He resorted to many regrettable things like selling his wife's jewellery. As a result, his wife actually left him! One day Stallone was sitting at home watching a fight between Chuck Wepner and Ali. Wepner was getting absolutely slaughtered but kept holding his ground and coming back for more. This underdog was really fighting for it despite the slim chance he would even get close to winning. This inspired Stallone to begin writing based on his inspiration from this fighter. He wrote for over 3 days straight and after this time he had written the entire script to Rocky.
He began trying to sell the screenplay to many producers with enormous numbers of rejections. This went on for months. He was so poor by this time that he decided he had to sell his best friend, his dog. Stallone waited outside of a local liquor store asking people if they would buy his dog. Eventually someone bought the dog for around $50. He was devastated to have to do this.
It was the most humiliating and depressing moment in his life!
He kept pursuing this story that he had written. Eventually someone loved it and they agreed to do the movie. He was wrapped and told them that he wanted to play the part of Rocky. They declined and told him he was a writer not an actor. Stallone disagreed and told them he was an actor. He declined there offer of over $100 000 despite his current poverty. A couple of weeks later they contacted him with an even higher offer and Stallone still insisted that he play Rocky. The once again declined. The offer kept rising just so he would sell them the film without playing the part. The price eventually got to around $400 000 and still he declined. He was certain that he was actor and that was it, there was no compromise. Eventually they offered Stallone a measly $25000 plus a share of the profits by having him as the lead role. He accepted. Then the first thing he did was go back to the liquor store to buy back his dog. He waited 3 days for the guy to come by and finally there he was with his dog. He offered the guy $150 to buy back the dog, the man declined. The offer kept rising, but again, Stallone knew his outcome and kept pursuing his goal. It ended up costing him $15000 and a part in the movie to buy back his dog. The guy and the dog are in Rocky.
Of course we all know what happened with the Rocky movie. It won Academy Award for best picture in 1976. It cost 1 million dollars to produce but made more than $200 million dollars at the box office!
His story shows you that you can achieve your dreams if you have:
- Persistence
- A true passion for something
- Self confidence and belief
So no matter how negative your situation might seem, always keep your goals and dreams in mind. And in time, your dreams would become a reality!
Cheers!

